We try to sit down and eat supper as a family every night. And I try to get the kids to tell me about their day and talk instead of everyone just staring at each other or shoveling in food as fast as they can and then leaving. I tried the usual questions “How was your day?”, “what did you do in school today?”, “how was gym, art, music, math?”, and so many other generic questions. And I was getting the typical answer: “Fine” UGH!! I wanted conversation not grunts from the peanut gallery.
Well, I finally found a solution. We started the question of the day. Questions range from “if you could invent a type of ice cream what would it be?” to “what super power would you choose?” Sometimes we do best and worst of the day or the top three highlights of your day. But the questions seem to work the best.
The other night we discussed what the world would be like if people lived underwater. We decided that would be fatter in order to insulate us from the cold water and that we would probably live in underwater caves eating cold fish. Beka and Jared actually look forward to the nightly conversations now, and they remind me if I forget to ask the question. And no one is just rushing through eating either. Meal times has become much more enjoyable for everyone.